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Making Up Apologies

When trying to get your ex back, a mistake people often make is to say I'm sorry a hundred times. Even though it doesn't work, we keep hoping they'll take us back.

Instead of apologizing endlessly, there are a few things to do that will be much more effective. Starting with, don't say I'm sorry if you did nothing wrong. If your ex just isn't that into you any more, maybe you did nothing wrong. Apologizing can make you sound pathetic.

Of course, if you did something wrong that needs an apology, that's a great place to start. You have to understand what you did wrong and be ready to apologize, just don't start with an apology - yet.

However, before you apologize, you need to do a few things first or your apology wont work. Lets say you had an affair and that's why you lost your ex. You definitely did something wrong! But don't go saying I'm sorry a hundred times. It wont work. Trust has been broken. Betrayal has been experienced by your ex.

So do these things first, before you ever say I'm sorry. Admit what you did wrong. Fess up. Your ex needs to know that you understand that you screwed up. So admit it. Don't justify, don't blame it on being lonely or on being drunk. You'll be lonely and drunk in the future, so trying to justify will make your ex continue to mistrust you.

Then, help your ex to resolve their feelings of mistrust and betrayal. The way to do this is get them to vent. To get their feelings off their chest. So ask them how they feel about what happened, and then shut up and listen. Be a good listener. This helps them to release and begin to resolve their bad feelings.

If you can do both of those things, admit what you did wrong and get them to vent, you are in great shape. Now, when you apologize, they can hear you. Now you're I'm sorry has a chance of being heard. And being accepted.

So don't make a hundred apologies. Make one, after you do those two things first. If you do this right, you can often get your ex back in hours instead of weeks or months.  It can happen if you have a plan and follow it.

One thing you can do is write out how you'd say these steps.  Then make the call!

Using this skill along with a few others can make a big difference when it comes to getting your ex back. You can often get them back in hours or days instead of waiting months and hoping they get over it!  If you would like to get your ex back without weeks of work you can check out the complete method here at Get Your Love Back Now.  When you know the right steps to take, you can often have a solid chance of making up with your ex within 24 hours.