Making Up - Getting Them To Call Back

Maybe you already have called your ex 100 times and begged and pleaded and made an idiot out of yourself. You really want to get your ex back and so you've been pushing hard. And they are not returning your calls.  This is hugely frustrating!  You have so much you want to say, and they won't even return your call.

How in the world can you get your ex back if they won't return your phone calls? Rather than tricks or gimmicks, like trying to bump into them at work, you can be respectful, honest and sincere and get them to talk to you. Here are a few ways to do this:

Call them and leave a message saying if they just give you ten minutes, you'll stop bugging them forever, so could they please call you back. If you sound sincere and make this believable, you can often get them to return your call. This way, if they do want you to stop bugging them, they can consider giving you ten minutes so you will leave them alone.

Or send them a note with the same message. What your ex is looking for at this point is for you to stop bothering them, so leave them a message or send them a note and then see if they'll respond. It might take them a day or two, but you can usually get a response this way " depending on how unpleasant the break up was.

Give them a day or two, and if they don't respond its okay. This happens sometimes. Each relationship is unique in what happened, what caused the break up, and how emotionally upsetting the break up was. How to get your ex back is a process, not a formula.

If they don't get to you, they may just need more time to process their feelings and begin to let go of their anger or sadness about you and the break up. They need space. Everyone is different. So give them a week of No Contact. A week of silence from you. Then try the above steps again.

Giving your ex some space, time, peace and quiet can be very difficult to do, but it also work wonders. It can show that you understand and respect their feelings and their needs, which is always a good thing. It may be hard for us to give them a week or two of space, but it can be just what is needed.

So give your ex a week of no contact if needed, then make a call. You can often get your ex back using some patience. If this doesn't work, there are still some other strategies you can use, like a particular kind of apology or reconnect letter.

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