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Making Up Through Listening

When we want to get our ex back, we all tend to think the same kind of things. We've got to promise them we'll change, we've got to do some fast talking, we've got to apologize fifty times.  We think we have to do all the talking and we have to sell ourselves well.  We are very focused on what we have to say or need to say.

But one powerful method to get your ex back though, is to listen, not do all the talking.   In fact, you can often get your ex back faster if you listen almost as much as you talk.

Most likely, your ex broke up with you because you wronged them in some way. Maybe you were too needy or too jealous.

As time went on, because of whatever you did, your ex's heart began to fill up with negative emotions towards you. That's why they dumped you. Their heart is now full of these bad feelings.

Your job, to get them back, is to help them to release their negative emotions towards you. You can't get them back unless they begin to resolve the negative emotions that fill their heart.

There is actually a powerful way to help them do this. Get them to vent. Help them to get those bad feelings off their chest. Once they've done this, they will start to feel better.

Letting them get things off their chest is a powerful way to help them to let go of all the bad feelings stored up in their heart. Yes, you will need to apologize. But get them to vent first.

Start off by asking them how what you did makes them feel. Then be a good listener. Don't argue or defend or justify yourself. The idea is to get them to blow off steam.

If you work the venting angle a few times, getting them to really open up and tell you how they feel about whatever you did to them, then you have a real chance to get them back. Then they may have room in their heart to accept your apology and give you a second chance.

You can make up with your ex in hours or days instead of weeks and months hoping they get over it!  If you would like to get your ex back without weeks of work you can check out the complete method here at Get Your Love Back Now.  When you know the right steps to take, you can often have a solid chance of making up with your ex within 24 hours.